Best Man Duties & Advice
Don't fret about whether your best friend is "up to the challenge." He'll be fine. Here are the official and unofficial duties of the Best Man.
You don't have to be Shakespeare. You just need to have a plan, execute it, get in, get out. So don't wing it, don't overstay your welcome, and don't piss off the locals.
I have 3 best friends that I'm trying to decide on a best man. All 3 of us go back to elementary school together and have grown up through the years. I don't know how to choose one and not sure if I can, any one of them one be a great best man...would it be dumb to have 3 best men?
You can give a lousy speech and the guests will still clink their champagne flutes, applaud, and then return to their cakes and dancing. So relax. Mediocrity will suffice.
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The best man should be your brother or your best friend, period.