To help guide your moral compass, we've created a continuum of bachelor wrongness, with as spotless as a lamb, and cheating, lying, Joe-Francis-esque douchebag. What's your score?
You are both the enabler of the groom's debauchery and, simultaneously, the guardian of his dignity; the good cop and the bad cop. Here are 10 rules for success.
So instead of being confrontational, tell him that you appreciate him looking out for you, you know he has your best interest at heart, but that the party you want--for a variety of reasons--is the gunfest.