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Wedding Day Themes Every Groom Should Know

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If you’re at the discovery phase in identifying a wedding theme, we’ve got some news for you. The good news: There’s never been a better time to keep a mood board (or inspiration board) thanks to shareable imagery on Pinterest and Instagram. The bad news: There are a ton of wedding styles to consider so this could take a while.

Cue the eye rolls and groaning. We get it. Because after all, scrolling through bride-focused wedding theme boards is exactly what everyone wants to do. But it’s time grooms stepped up to the plate and gave a little input, especially when it comes to the big day’s overall vibe. I mean, it’s your wedding too, right?

Don’t worry, The Plunge has your back. We’ve put together a guide to wedding themes designed specifically for grooms who are ready to impress. Below, you’ll find shots of real couples from around the world that should spark some ideas of your own. So the big question now is: what sort of theme are you going for in your wedding?

Rustic Wedding Theme

A rustic theme fits any couple that wants a natural, alpine feel to the wedding ceremony and reception.

Think: Lots of dark wood, earthy colors, and a more reserved flower arrangement.
Bonus points: If you can get the flowers on the actual suit!

Rustic wedding theme decor reception
Rustic wedding theme couple

Jessica & William photographed by Rebecca Carpenter Photography

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Rustic wedding theme couple

Amy & Mark photographed by Sarah Carpenter

Rustic wedding theme decor reception
Rustic wedding theme couple

Allison & Isaac photographed by Hana Gonzalez Photography

Rustic wedding theme decor reception
Rustic wedding theme couple

Emily & Jordan photographed by Alixann Loosle Photography

City Wedding Theme

A city theme is perfect for couples that value urban splendor.

Think: Lots of glass and steel, and definitely a skyscraper or two.
Bonus points: Whether it’s modern or more old-fashioned, a city backdrop often provides natural framing for pictures.

City wedding theme decor reception
City wedding theme couple

Daisy & Geo photographed by Lika Banshoya – Poetic Photography

City wedding theme decor reception
City wedding theme couple

Diana & Carlos photographed by Chaz Cruz Photographers

City wedding theme decor reception
City wedding theme couple

Christine & Will Photographed by Peterson Design & Photography

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City wedding theme couple

Ramya & Garrett photographed by Mary Costa Photography

Country Wedding Theme

If farms and barns are more your thing, you’re a country kind of guy. Or maybe you just want a more relaxed feel to your wedding.

Think: Wide open plains and simple decorations.
Bonus points: Consider including animals in wedding shots (dogs, horses, no snakes).

Country wedding theme decor ceremony
Country wedding theme couple

Chloe & Florian photographed by La Bohème Photographie

Country wedding theme decor ceremony
Country wedding theme couple

Ashley & Chris photographed by Awake Photography

Country wedding theme decor reception
Country wedding theme couple

Whitney & Casey photographed by  Nicole Leever Photography

Country wedding theme couple
Country wedding theme couple

Bethany & Hank photographed by Cottonwood Road Photography

Beach Wedding Theme

A beach theme is perfect for grooms looking into destination weddings, whether it’s white or black sands.

Think: Sand, surf, sunshine, and maybe even a fire pit.
Bonus points: Shoes are fully optional, of course. Just be on the look-out for seagulls.

Beach wedding theme decor reception
Beach wedding theme couple

Christina & Johnathan photographed by Jeremy Chou

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Beach wedding theme couple

Melina & Byron photographed by Adrian Wood

Beach wedding theme couple
Beach wedding theme couple

Margaux & Dylan photographed by Loric Gonzalez

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Beach wedding theme couple

Kayla & Jason photographed by Chris & Ruth Photography

Garden/Outdoor Wedding Theme

A garden theme is good for couples that want the feeling of the great outdoors without the hassle. Plus, the guests will thank you.

Think: Sunday brunch or maybe even an exotic bungalow.
Bonus points: Plants, fences, and garden flowers double as wedding decor.

Garden outdoor wedding theme decor reception
Garden outdoor wedding theme couple

Brian & Johnathan photographed by Sweetlife Photography

Garden outdoor wedding theme decor ceremony
Garden outdoor wedding theme couple

Leslie & Cano photographed by Chelsea Abril Photography

Garden outdoor wedding theme decor ceremony
Garden outdoor wedding theme couple

Hayley & Omar photographed by cara robbins studio

Garden outdoor wedding theme decor reception
Garden outdoor wedding theme couple

Travis & Ariel photographed by D.Lillian Photography

Garden outdoor wedding theme decor reception
Garden outdoor wedding theme couple

Ana & Filippo photographed by Foolishly Rushing In

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