Paradox: you're a good tipper. But you hate to even *think* about wedding vendors. So how do you tip? A quick cheat sheet.

You're an enlightened guy. You're a good tipper. The odds are good, however, that you have no frickin' clue how much to tip all the mob of caterers, photographers, bartenders, and wedding cake extortionists. You'll find a more extended conversation here. And this is your cheat sheet.

Caterer
Normally included in the contract. Check to verify.

Bartender
Usually 15% of total bar bill. Check upfront to see if included with the catering service charge. Note: they should not have a tip jar for your guests.

Waiters/Waitresses
Nope. Should be included in catering contract. Again, check to ensure.

Photographer/Videographer
Nope. Not necessary. If you feel like tipping, $50 should be enough.

Wedding Planner
Mercifully, no.

Limo driver
Check the contract. Assuming it's not already included in your bill, tip 15%.

DJ/Band
If he/she's the owner, don't tip. If he/she's an employee, consider $50-$100, based on performance.

Florist
What are you talking to a florist for? Have you gone insane? This one isn't for you. And no, they generally don't need tips.

Tuxedo shop
Nope.

Wedding Cake Extortionists
Nah.

Valets
$.50 to $1 per car, check and see if this is in the contract, and attendants shouldn't accept tips from guests. Mention this on your wedding website and invitations.

Coat check
Also $.50 to $1 per item. Also should be pre-contracted and pre-paid.

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