Ummm - no, man.  If she has a problem then don't do it.  Think about this...do you REALLY need strippers?  Honestly, some guys have a thing for them (many of my guy friends, in fact) and 90% of us women really don't get it.  It grosses us out, actually.  If you want to go to a strip club because it is 'the thing to do' then I would make her happy and drop it.  If you want to go to a strip club because you get off on it, then maybe marriage is not your thing? If you do go, she will have a nasty taste in her mouth for a while...and you know what that means in terms of intimate contact!

I know, maybe not the answer you wanted, but the only guys that should be in strip clubs are the ones that have girlfriends (or wives) that are into it too ;)

I have to agree with Rachel. My boyfriend went to a strip club for his mates bachelor party but as much as I know he is only going for the bachelors it grosses me out. And he was very honest with me and they had a table dance (whatever) and she danced on him - now that disgusted me further more. Yes some chics are cool with that but I am not some chics.

It's a tough one coz my friend says it's fine coz guys do that and you should let them coz they will do it behind your back.

Sometimes I wish I was like her just so I could build a bridge and get over it you know?