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Subject :Re:Want to get engaged on TV?..
02-03-2012 21:23
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| juliobagdon |
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Getting Engaged(?)
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Want to get engaged on TV?
I think that definitely not stupid to want to be engaged... but why do you want to? Really start thinking of the reasons rather than feeling stressed from wedding tv shows. Also, what is his reason for not wanting to? I think, being in a relationship as long as two have been, it's important to have some joint-life plan in place.
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Subject :Re:Wedding Invitations?..
01-29-2012 21:12
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Subject :Re:Vegas hotels..
01-29-2012 21:06
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The Bachelor Party
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Vegas hotels
I will share the top ten hotel in Vegas and hopefully it helps,
Here it is.....
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Subject :Re:Costa Rica Bachelor Party..
01-29-2012 20:55
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Subject :Re:Best ring for your wedding..
01-28-2012 00:20
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Getting Engaged(?)
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Best ring for your wedding
Our fashion jewelry GlassOfVenice.com features all the latest trends in necklaces, earrings, fashion silver, shell jewelry, wood jewelry beads jewelry and more. _________
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Subject :What should I expect to pay for catering? ..
01-22-2012 15:09
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Getting Married
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What should I expect to pay for catering?
My reception will have about 120 people. Our wedding is not going to be super fancy (both the ceremony and reception are in a community hall) but we do want it to be tasteful. The first few catering quotes I've received have been over $4000. Is it really going to be that expensive?!! |
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Subject :Re:Wedding Invitations?..
01-20-2012 22:16
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The Bachelor Party
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Wedding Invitations?
If you want something simple and not formal, look at vistaprint.com. I haven't used them for wedding invitations, but for other events. They are high quality and very affordable.
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Subject :Re:Bridal Jewelry..
01-20-2012 22:05
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Getting Married
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Bridal Jewelry
Found a great website today - www.GlassOfVenice.com. They have an incredible selection of Murano Glass Jewelry, artwork, accessories and other stuff. I have not seen better prices elsewhere either. Will definitely use them again. And have shared it with friends and family and thought I’d extend the word to the web. __________________
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Subject :Restaurants affected by the oil spill..
01-20-2012 18:29
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The Honeymoon
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Restaurants affected by the oil spill
Many great restaurants was affected by the oil spill. to those who were affected they have the right to file for a restaurant bp claims to in order to get the their compensation because of the damages of the the oil spill.
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Subject :Bp Claim Florida denied..
01-20-2012 05:00
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Subject :Filing your claims..
01-19-2012 08:35
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The Honeymoon
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Filing your claims
Many people are suffering because of the oil spill. I know a friend who didn't persue their honeymoon due to the damaged of the oil spill. Instead they filed a claim in the GCCF where it will be submitted and processed.
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[url=http://www.businessbpclaims.com/]gccf[/url]
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Subject :Re:Engagement Proposal Planning..
01-19-2012 05:10
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Getting Engaged(?)
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Engagement Proposal Planning
Me and my girlfriend have had a long distance relationship for 8 years. She is an Architect and I am still waiting to find a Teaching job, hiring freeze in the district. While we were studying years ago we would only see each other once or twice a month. This was fine when we were students because we had agreed to work things out as the problems and issues arose, and they did. We had broken up a couple of times, the worst was when she left to Italy for a year. So anyways, we got through it and remained interested and worked things out as we were both finishing college. We made an agreement to spend as much time together as possible to see if we should take the next step in our distant but serious relationship. This was 1 year and a half ago.
I still have not been able to get a career but i have two great jobs with the district and i can maintain until the hiring freeze is over. She struggled to become an Architect during these times, but luckily she was hired and has been working for 8 months now. After graduation we spent plenty of time together and we realized how happy we are being together...we got engaged. As it turns out, her new job has her commuting over an hour one way to get to work. I myself m off work at 6pm. The past 8 months we have returned to a distant relationship in which we only see each other about 3 times a months.
OK, heres were things get confusing and complicated for me. 3 months ago she meets a new co-worker, did not know him prior at any point in our relationship. My girl tells me he is gay, yet he has had relationships with females, and he as recently as two years ago broke off a relationship with a female. So, naturally i think he's either bi- or just recently became gay. I know from some of my friends that gay men have felt they were gay all their lives.
They live 10 minutes apart, and now share a commute of over an hour each day just to get to work, and 1 hour and a half coming home thru traffic. Their friendship has quickly grown, in the ten years i know her, she has not developed a relationship this quickly. I understand this is her career and he is a carpool buddy. Then the pressure from work starts to make her feel depressed, distant and less communicative towards me. In the three months she has known her new friend "E," they have grown from co-workers to being best-friends essentially, Holloween costume parties, Xmas and New years party invitations. In the past three months, they have gotten plenty of time to have breakfast when they arrived too early for work, they share lunchtime, and at times have shared Happy Hour drinks after work. Please keep in mind that since she got this career stated we have only been seeing each other 3 times a month, (very little intimacy). A month ago was her Bday, she left to Big Bear at the last minute with her two cousins. I had not seen her nor been with her for the previous 2 weeks. Normally we get closer in our relationship during the Winter season. This year, we had been discussing getting engaged, and we did.
However, two weeks ago while we were in bed asleep, she was feeling restless because of back pain and couldnt sleep. I woke up to try to help comfort her and she says the words, "I WANT TIME OFF" Her reasoning is that her boss is putting pressure on her, and that the company might downsize employees. She has only had the job for 8 months and has been asked several times to take Project Manager title on many projects. She has refused to take on extra responsibility and just want to continue learning because she is new, but she is already more advanced than the Project Managers that are making 30$+ an hour, my girl is only making entry level salary (half). Yet she often works late and gets at least 1 hour of overtime everyday, sometimes more because of deadlines.
She really has a Horrible Boss, but one that prefers her over his veterans because she makes less money and works faster than old men who never updated their Architecture technology. Basically, I dont believe she will be part of the downsizing. She has been telling me the only reason why she remains working their is because of her friends. So, she wants "time off to reflect what is going to happen with her life, and her new job." This was two weeks ago, the following weekend she goes out with her carpool buddy and friends to a club. They got so wasted that she couldnt drive home and spent the night sleeping in his bedroom with another female friend from work, while he "E" slept in a different room. In 8 months I have only gotten to see her and be with her physically and romantically only 3 times a month on average. She carpools and talks to her new best friend everyday, and in only 3 months she is sleeping over is house. He, "E" still lives with his parents in a two-story house, by the way.
She claims that there is nothing sexual going on, because "he's gay" as she says. I tell her its the time, the intimacy, the growing friendship that intimidates me. I dont feel comfortable with this situation. Why does a woman who has verbally agreed to be engaged ask for time off, when the relationship already has plenty of space. She claims its her job that is pressuring her, yet I get "time off." And the first weekend after her request she goes out with co-workers, gets too drunk and spends the night in his bed.
I have broken off the engagement, and we are discussing our relationship entirely. She insists that she loves me and we should get married and that there is nothing wrong with having a gay best-friend around.
Please help me, I need as much advice from people who have nothing to gain from either myself or my girl. I am getting a wide variety of answers from the people we know, mostly biased opinions. I joined because I wanted to hear from Plungers! |
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Subject :Different wedding rings..
01-19-2012 04:34
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| sgtwyoung |
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Getting Married
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Different wedding rings
Ok, here's the deal. When I proposed to my soon to be wife I gave her my Mother's wedding set as an engagement ring. Since then, I had her a custom set made to use as her wedding ring. Is it a bad idea to wait until the marriage ceremony to surprise her with the new rings? Oh, the custom ring is WAY better than the other set. 3karats better... |
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Subject :Re:Engagement Expert..
01-17-2012 09:28
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Getting Engaged(?)
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Engagement Expert
Hello HeartsBandit,
Me and my girlfriend have had a long distance relationship for 8 years. She is an Architect and I am still waiting to find a Teaching job, hiring freeze in the district. While we were studying years ago we would only see each other once or twice a month. This was fine when we were students because we had agreed to work things out as the problems and issues arose, and they did. We had broken up a couple of times, the worst was when she left to Italy for a year. So anyways, we got through it and remained interested and worked things out as we were both finishing college. We made an agreement to spend as much time together as possible to see if we should take the next step in our distant but serious relationship. This was 1 year and a half ago.
I still have not been able to get a career but i have two great jobs with the district and i can maintain until the hiring freeze is over. She struggled to become an Architect during these times, but luckily she was hired and has been working for 8 months now. After graduation we spent plenty of time together and we realized how happy we are being together...we got engaged. As it turns out, her new job has her commuting over an hour one way to get to work. I myself m off work at 6pm. The past 8 months we have returned to a distant relationship in which we only see each other about 3 times a months.
OK, heres were things get confusing and complicated for me. 3 months ago she meets a new co-worker, did not know him prior at any point in our relationship. My girl tells me he is gay, yet he has had relationships with females, and he as recently as two years ago broke off a relationship with a female. So, naturally i think he's either bi- or just recently became gay. I know from some of my friends that gay men have felt they were gay all their lives.
They live 10 minutes apart, and now share a commute of over an hour each day just to get to work, and 1 hour and a half coming home thru traffic. Their friendship has quickly grown, in the ten years i know her, she has not developed a relationship this quickly. I understand this is her career and he is a carpool buddy. Then the pressure from work starts to make her feel depressed, distant and less communicative towards me. In the three months she has known her new friend "E," they have grown from co-workers to being best-friends essentially, Holloween costume parties, Xmas and New years party invitations. In the past three months, they have gotten plenty of time to have breakfast when they arrived too early for work, they share lunchtime, and at times have shared Happy Hour drinks after work. Please keep in mind that since she got this career stated we have only been seeing each other 3 times a month, (very little intimacy). A month ago was her Bday, she left to Big Bear at the last minute with her two cousins. I had not seen her nor been with her for the previous 2 weeks. Normally we get closer in our relationship during the Winter season. This year, we had been discussing getting engaged, and we did.
However, two weeks ago while we were in bed asleep, she was feeling restless because of back pain and couldnt sleep. I woke up to try to help comfort her and she says the words, "I WANT TIME OFF" Her reasoning is that her boss is putting pressure on her, and that the company might downsize employees. She has only had the job for 8 months and has been asked several times to take Project Manager title on many projects. She has refused to take on extra responsibility and just want to continue learning because she is new, but she is already more advanced than the Project Managers that are making 30$+ an hour, my girl is only making entry level salary (half). Yet she often works late and gets at least 1 hour of overtime everyday, sometimes more because of deadlines.
She really has a Horrible Boss, but one that prefers her over his veterans because she makes less money and works faster than old men who never updated their Architecture technology. Basically, I dont believe she will be part of the downsizing. She has been telling me the only reason why she remains working their is because of her friends. So, she wants "time off to reflect what is going to happen with her life, and her new job." This was two weeks ago, the following weekend she goes out with her carpool buddy and friends to a club. They got so wasted that she couldnt drive home and spent the night sleeping in his bedroom with another female friend from work, while he "E" slept in a different room. In 8 months I have only gotten to see her and be with her physically and romantically only 3 times a month on average. She carpools and talks to her new best friend everyday, and in only 3 months she is sleeping over is house. He, "E" still lives with his parents in a two-story house, by the way.
She claims that there is nothing sexual going on, because "he's gay" as she says. I tell her its the time, the intimacy, the growing friendship that intimidates me. I dont feel comfortable with this situation. Why does a woman who has verbally agreed to be engaged ask for time off, when the relationship already has plenty of space. She claims its her job that is pressuring her, yet I get "time off." And the first weekend after her request she goes out with co-workers, gets too drunk and spends the night in his bed.
I have broken off the engagement, and we are discussing our relationship entirely. She insists that she loves me and we should get married and that there is nothing wrong with having a gay best-friend around.
Please help me, I need as much advice from people who have nothing to gain from either myself or my girl. I am getting a wide variety of answers from the people we know, mostly biased opinions. I joined because I wanted to hear from Plungers! |
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Subject :Bp oil spill claims services ..
01-17-2012 06:02
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Subject :Re:Mexico (Yes, Mexico!)..
01-16-2012 13:17
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Subject :Want to get engaged on TV?..
01-13-2012 05:54
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Getting Engaged(?)
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Want to get engaged on TV?
A national broadcast network is looking for men who are ready to take the plunge. If you're about to propose to your girlfriend, you could make a lifetime of memories and propose on TV. We're looking for guys with unique proposal ideas -- maybe silly, maybe sentimental. If you would love to capture that moment for all time and share it with America, email a brief description of your relationship and your proposal ideas to: heather@bigfishdc.com. Thank you and good luck! |
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Subject :Re:What colour bridesmaid dresses will go with my wedding dress?..
01-13-2012 00:30
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What colour bridesmaid dresses will go with my wedding dress?
I give here some ideals i had a champagne colored wedding dress and my bridesmaids were in wine red and my candle lighters in champagne dresses it was very pretty how are some sites. I would say try a dark red and champagne colors how are some website hope the help.
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Subject :Re:She informed me "Our honeymoon isn't going to be a good week&q..
01-11-2012 11:57
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She informed me "Our honeymoon isn't going to be a good week"
I agree that this could be the case. However, you might want to choose a place that is more relaxing than entertaining. This would give you plenty of time to just chill out and unwind after the wedding. Have you guys looked at places in the Northeast? You might check out www.mvy.com and see what you can find out about this area. |
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Subject :Re:New Guy..
01-11-2012 11:54
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Getting Married
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New Guy
I don't know if you guys have checked out places for the honeymoon yet, but I would be interested to know what places you are leaning toward. The Northeast has a lot of quaint little towns. You can read more about it at www.mvy.com . You might also check out vacations in Florida or Hawaii if you're looking for something on the warmer side of things. I will be anxious to hear what you guys decide. |
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