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 Subject :Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 06-30-2009 09:47 
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Sucks!  Is that enough to call it off?  Sex was wayyyyy more frequent before.
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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 06-30-2009 12:52 
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That does suck, have you talked to your fiancee about it? I don't know if that is a reason to call a wedding off before figuring out what the problem is.
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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 06-30-2009 18:21 
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Yeah. I would just bring it up. She may be so busy with the wedding that she's forgetting who she needs to give some attention to.
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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 07-01-2009 03:42 
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We need more info on this. Has her general overall attitude changed toward you, or just less sex? Could be a physical thing/issue, or could be wedding stress. Could be anything on earth. Point is, you guys need to talk to each other. Calling off the wedding is NOT the answer. Theres going to be plenty of times in life and marriage where sex takes a back burner due to life,stress,kids,health,whatever. You planning on bailing everytime the sex isnt as often as youd like? Hopefully not. So talk to her and see what the problem is. If, after you talk, you feel like the problem isnt something specific but just that you and her have different sex drives,then you need to decide if you can live with someone who just doesnt want sex as much as you do. Lots of people with diff sex drives get married, they just compromise. But if its too different, it might not work.
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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 07-02-2009 09:28 
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Gotta agree with YankeeJoe.

Yeah, this is a problem, but it's way, waaaaaay too early to say it's a deal-breaker.  Talk to her. See what's up.  Maybe there's something physical goin' on, maybe she hates your new deoderant, or maybe she's super-super stressed about something else entirely, like her job or her parents.  Who knows. Definitely talk to her and go from there...

 

 

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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 07-29-2009 15:56 
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thats no reason to call things off...you need to talk to her to see what the deal is maybe it's something medical like a hormonal imbalance alot of women get that once they pass 25 and even though it's not as talked about as men's women do suffer from a sex drive disfunction that can be due to a whole of factors. talk to her bruh and make sure she is 100% percent honest with you regarrdless of how hurtfull the truth might be.
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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 07-29-2009 17:51 
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Sounds rough man, maybe a little spicing of the night could be in order.
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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 12-08-2009 07:58 
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This seems to be a common problem as I have run into it as well and am still currently dealing with this.  My advice to you is don't accuse her of anything at all but just simply ask if there's something bothering her and offer to talk it out.  Ask if something has changed in yourself or her and if there's any way to aid her.  Be supportive but whatever you do, do not call off your wedding because of less sex.  If she begins doing things behind your back and it's obvious casually question her about it to see her responses before doing anything that might end the relationship.

Hope this has helped you in the way it has assisted me. :)

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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 12-12-2009 11:38 
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Whoa whoa whoa, hold up man.  We all like sex.  I love me some.  I am my soon to be do it like 1 to 2 times a month. this is no reason to back out. holly crap man.  It just not about sex all the time. It is about way more then that.  Now we do have some fun in the sack alot. we fool around very often and it is very nice.  Do not think cause you have a girl and are going to get married that you are going to be having sex very often. It not all abot that.

 

Ps how long you all have been together?

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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 12-21-2009 09:37 
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The best thing in my opinion is to have a talk with her about it and let her know where you are coming from. Then try to compromise on a set time. If she just seems like she is uninterested in haveing sex with you period.....then maybe theres something deeper that you may have to postpone the wedding on untill its resolved but in the mean time having a nice sit-down discussion seems like the best path for you to take at this moment at least to shed some light on the reason why.
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 Subject :Re:Sex less than once a month... and we're engaged!.. 04-29-2012 23:09 
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