The Plunge editor gives perspective on how to save money, using the 80/20 rule, bachelor parties, and what turns a man into Groomzilla.

LeBlanc's attitude may be a function of the economy, of maturity, or both. Jeff Wilser, author of "The Maxims of Manhood," said it's a trend for betrothed men.

"Today's groom is on average 29. He's basically matured and already lived his 20s," Wilser said.

"There's less novelty and thrill in going out and getting wasted than there used to be," he said. "Older grooms are more financially invested in the wedding, which forces them to be cognizant of not ruining the wedding they're paying for. That's not to say every bachelor party must be a quiet evening in watching ‘The Mighty Ducks.' "

Wilser, editor of ThePlunge.com, a snarky men's Web site for wedding planning, offers "20 ideas for stripper-free bachelor parties."

Many are low-cost or low-key - including fishing, camping and going for a steak dinner.

Wilser said his advice goes well beyond the bachelor party. He speaks to an audience of men who are just as eager as their brides to tinker with every detail of the marriage. Enter the detail-minded control freak known as Groomzilla.

"One of the biggest trends is couples paying for the weddings themselves," Wilser said. "As couples take a more active role financially, it's natural for (the groom) to be more engaged, and planning is an outgrowth of that. There's a perception of ‘We need to save money, let's cut back here, let's cut back there,' and the groom becomes a monster."

Wilser advises grooms to keep the peace by "picking your battles," and focusing not on such small matters as stationery or flowers but rather "open bar and decent music."