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Do Women Shag Strippers at Bachelorette Party? (Crazy Reader Comment of the Day)

Well, okay then. This is an oddball. 

Over in the always-controversial article What Counts as Cheating at a Bachelor Party, the reader "dude" has this to add:

"This is bullshit, have you seen what goes on at a bachelorette party?

"They have sex with the strippers, while the party eggs them. are you telling me thats not cheating?"

Um.  Huh.  Either "dude" is crazy, or we are. (I'm a little biased.)  Any other readers care to comment?

And see the full, messy, polarizing chain of stripper-cheating-comments here: Bachelor Party Ethics.

 
 
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What bachelorette parties is this guy talking about? This dude is definitely crazy. Or married to a whore.
Bride511, June 07, 2010
 

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Yeah...this guy is either actually crazy or he lives in a different world than me. Most bachelorette parties I know of don't actually have strippers and the ones that do...I'm pretty sure that doesn't happen. And I don't think I know any women who would cheer their friend on while they were having sex with anyone, much less a stripper. Note to all the guys....if you actually have legitimate reason to think this is going to happen at your fiance's bachelorette party, you might want to re-evaluate your life choices.
D, June 08, 2010
 

O.o

Wow. There really isn't anything else to say there...

I agree with D. Most of the bachelorette parties I know of don't feature strippers, and when they do, it tends to be in a club. (Think about that: "So now not only am I DOING a stranger, the audience is also mainly comprised of people I don't know. Umm, I'm not too sure my performance, or my nerves for that matter, would hold up to that one".)

However, yes, if there were strippers, and you did have sex with them as your crazy friends are chanting and waving their beers around, that would definitely be cheating. Regardless of gender. :D
Midori, June 09, 2010
 

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Quote from a friend: "I went to this bachelorette party recently and there was a stripper, and he, like, dangled his balls on the brides face! I would so NOT pay for that! Thank god you're not having a stripper!"
SusieQ, June 18, 2010
 

The reader is right

The reader is right. I do some photography and while searching Google, looking for pictures of brides one time I happened upon a site that featured male strippers at bachelorette parties. For the most part, the women looked like your neighbor or your neighbor's wife, but they were going wild. They were giving the strippers handjobs, blowjobs and a few were shown actually having intercourse while there we anywhere from 35-100 (different parties) other women cheering them on. This was disgusting to me as I never have understood the whole bachelor party or bachelorette party idea. I thought marriage was all about fidelity so why would you participate in infidelity the night before your wedding. Why would you even want to look upon someone else if you are committing to be true to someone else when that would only tempt you to be untrue. The site was something about Dancing Bears but be forwarned, it is definitely X-rated.
WTD, January 17, 2011
 

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that is correct, though you tagged our profession that low remarks that doesn't mean that we aren't professionals. we do this for a living and with little dignity and pride at least we have something to feed those who are counting on us and paying our rented home for a place to stay at night. it's a hard life but we won't go that far just to make an already "decent life" left with us.
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dante, February 09, 2011
 

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all i have to say is, if she do have one of these partys n she ed up cheating, the bitch is a slut
richard1991, March 18, 2011
 

A CFNM lover's theory!

So loving CFNM I check out a lot of sites dealing with Bachelorette parties and the women's interaction with strippers. I think a lot of people are getting confused with staged porn sites that portray a girls' party with strippers...remember if you're to have an adult site you need to have photo IDs of the actors as well as a blood test...I'm sure some women at some parties get carried away, but for the most part nothing too crazy occurs...I just went to a local Portland club called Darcelle's and they have strippers at midnight and mostly cater to bachelorette parties...the atmosphere and excitement level was off the charts as the women went crazy...but the lap dances mostly consisted of women putting money in the g-string while grabbing a peak...nothing unexpected just a lot of fun... I think guys like to think women do more, but part is a jelous fantasy that blurs the reality.
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I'm a bartender on a club and sadly, girls do it!!

If you don't believe me , read this interview with one of those strippers.
When you get married , make your bride to be to video tape the bachelorette..
http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/woman/2681067/A-male-strippers-guide-to-sex-crazed-hen-nights.html
Tony Rossi, October 10, 2011
 

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Most male strippers are gay HIV Positive filth who take delight in funcking up relationships, by screwing drunk sluts who should never be married in the first place. Who knows what depravities go on behind these the scenes at these hens nights. Ive heard stories of mothers, daughters and grandmothers all having sex with the stripper. Ive heard that some strippers have had to leave the country as their lives were in danger. These fucking grubs should be banned. Men how ever have a legitimate sexual and biological need to have sex, therefore medically it is ok for a man to fuck the stripper (female)
Teltcher, October 10, 2011
 

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leo, October 13, 2011
 

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Teltcher, October 24, 2011
 

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If you think that a bride would never have sex with a male stripper at her bachelorette party then read this:


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Is this common at bachelorette parties???

I actually saw a (video of a) stripper getting bj-ed and f*cking the maid of honor (dishonor, actually) in front of the bride and a room full of women who were cheering their friend. Is this normal?
Shocked, February 02, 2012
 
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