A lot of guys feel this. Not a lot of guys admit it. We break it down.

Maybe she already knows the plan. How do you still keep the suspence? We have a plan.

There’s an old saying about the distinction between art and pornography: maybe you can’t define pornography, but you’ll “know it when you see it.”

He gets that you can't explicitly mention ex-girlfriends, strippers, or cops. But he wants to do it subtly. Is it possible?

So you've settled on a DJ, as oppposed to a band.  Some things to keep in mind...

The question enthralled us. In 18 words, you sent a bolt of lightning to the very heart of gender roles, stereotypes, and cultural norms. It's such a simple question with such a thorny, unsettling answer...

The classic question. Do you let the tension build, or should you do it early so you can soak in the new-engagment joy?

"I have 3 best friends that I'm trying to decide on a best man.  All 3 of us go back to elementary school together and have grown up through the years.  I don't know how to choose one and not sure if I can, any one of them one be a great best man...would it be dumb to have 3 best men?"

We didn't exactly create The Plunge as a forum for virgin women, but hell, we're here to help...

Spoiler alert: They're not gonna like our answer...

Do you really want to go there? Remember, negotiating a prenup will shatter the romance. Posion trust. And piss her off. Is it worth it?

No. But not for the reasons you might think...

Maybe you have one idea for your bachelor party... And your best man has something else entirely. How to broker the peace?

Arugably the hardest job of the groom: picking between best friends. Some tie-breaking solutions...

Damn. We're supposed to be above these petty fights. Sometimes, though, it happens. This is how you damage-control.

Tradition, friendship, jealousy, it's all there...

And no... he's not already married.

If that question had a silver-bullet answer, then we'd shut down this site, collect our billions, and spend 16+ hours a day shattering bedposts.

Warning, warning, warning, warning...

This guy thought his fiancee was cool with him getting a lap dance. She wasn't. Oops! Now she's pissed. How can he recover?